JUNIOR DESOUZA MINISTRIES

Psalm 121:1,2

Junior's Teachings

Is Cosmetic Surgery A Sin? (July 23, 2008) 

The Rainfall Makes The Riverflow (July 8, 2008) 

Visionary Mapping (July 3, 2008)  

Parenting 911 (June 23, 2008)

Looking For An Opening: Entry Strategies (June 15, 2008) 

Possessing The High Place (June 5, 2008)  

Thou Shalt Enjoy Life! (June 2, 2008) 

The Prophet's Wilderness (May 19, 2008) 

Faithful, but not Fruitful (May 8, 2008) 

Authentic Masculinity (Apr 27, 2008) 

Legislating Second Heaven (Apr 19, 2008) 

The Gift of Discernment (Apr 14, 2008) 

The Anatomy of Addiction (Mar 30, 2008) 

Pregnant with Twins (Mar 27, 2008) 

Satan's Four Eschatological Structures, Pt 2 (Mar 19, 2008) 

Satan's Four Eschatological Structures, Pt 1 (Mar 15, 2008) 

Black, White, & Gray (Feb 19, 2008)

Forgiveness...can I truly forgive? (Feb 13, 2008)

Protect Your Identity (Feb 2, 2008)

Is Cosmetic Surgery A Sin?

Opening Statements

     Many Christians long to know what the Lord really thinks about cosmetic surgery and medical enhancements. A good number silently wonder, though, reluctant to voice such questions for fear of branding as "superficial" or "worldly". And, this is not an exclusively female concern, as many Christian males silently contemplate hair replacement, muscle implants, botox, and other works.
     The extreme answers of ultra-conservative Christianity are hard to take seriously, always inventing one more thing Christians "should not" do, as if kingdom life is a list of Cannots, Do Nots, and Should Nots. The extreme permissions of liberal Christianity are equally non-credible, as if kingdom life is a boundless free-for-all charged to a grace Mastercard. Thankfully, the wisdom of God is not found in such bi-polar rationale.
     Scripture reveals the general will of God, so we must plumb it carefully for answers. Since it does not directly address cosmetic surgery as such, we have to collect all the relevant truths, principles, and doctrines, then harmonize them responsibly to establish legitimate options. O nce biblically-legitimate options are established, the Spirit's personal guidance will lead each individual into selecting the best choice for their life.

Principle #1: A perfect body does not create a perfect soul

     Remember Absalom? He was the most beautiful man in all of Israel, yet his soul was as dark and demonized as could be. He plotted the murder of his own godly father, King David, led a nationwide coup d'etat to accomplish it, and committed sexual sin in broad daylight for the entire nation to see (2Sam 14:25, 15:1-14, ch 15-18). Flawless externally, repulsive internally.
     Many people desire cosmetic enhancement to "fix" blemishes and defects in their soul. Their inner life nags and hurts. To them, physical beauty is the external solution to an internal problem. Just the opposite...it is the soul that needs surgery and not the body!
     Contemporary culture has enshrined physical perfection, and why? To sedate a deeper desperation for healing, peace, fulfillment. Proverbs 19:22 (NIV) says what a person ultimately desires is unfailing love, not physical perfection. Therefore, the question to ask here is, Am I trying to create a perfect body to attain a perfect soul, or rather, to fix a broken soul? Even if the answer is yes, this does not reveal cosmetic surgery to be sinful. Rather, it reveals the person's priorities to be misplaced. Were the Christian to rectify this and reprioritize their values, yet still maintain a desire for cosmetic work, other principles would have to be considered.

Principle #2: God prioritizes motive over behavior

      1Samuel 16:7, Jeremiah 17:10, and Revelation 2:23 tells us God prioritizes motive over behavior. He does not ignore behavior, rather, He prioritizes motive in His evaluation of behavior. This is a hard concept for some to digest, but one that is crucial to our understanding of Jehovah. Humans are limited judges, seeing mainly external behaviors that can be measured (words and actions). It is difficult, sometimes impossible, to identify motives; not to mention, such an endeavor is risky. God prizes purity and integrity of motive. The heart of the matter is a matter of the heart! James 4:1-3 says God would lavish many good gifts on us, but sometimes puts our blessings on pause because of wrong motives in us that must first be rectified. Then He will un-pause their delivery (1:17).
     Therefore, the question to ask here is, What are my deepest and truest reasons for wanting cosmetic work, and have I shared them honestly with God in prayer? Those motives may be positive, negative, or neutral. More than Jehovah is preoccupied with external enhancements, He is concerned with our deepest becauses.

Principle #3: God values sound financial management

      Another principle that must be mixed in the blender is that of sound financial management. Several scriptures show that God values this (Lk 16:10-12, Pr 21:20). He wills that we manage our resources in a way that meets our needs, blesses others, and funds the kingdom. It is not acceptable to apply money to a temporary enhancement while withholding money from that which can permanently change lives in Christ. On the other hand, if a Christian has their financial priorities in order, and has sufficient supply to fund the physical enhancements, Scripture affirms the attainment of personal desires and rewards (Deu 12:20-22, Ps 20:4,5, Jn 15:7). Therefore, the question to ask here is, Have I been faithful to biblical financial priorities? Am I financially capable of allocating money to cosmetic work?

Principle #4: A healthy lifestyle is God's plan for some physical transformations 

      Some physical changes people desire can and should be attained by modifying our lifestyle. Scripture emphasizes a healthy lifestyle, or as some call it, divine health. Some Christians use and abuse plastic surgery much like they do miraculous healing...instead of learning discipline and diligence to cultivate healthy habits, they run to the doctor or the prayer line to get "fixed" instantly. This is why many Christians do not get healed miraculously. It is not because of faithlessness or because God took a power nap after the apostles died. It is because He is wanting us to create the changes ourselves through a healthy life. This is the law of sowing and reaping God Himself established. By consistently sowing healthy choices we can reap a healthy and reformed physique. Many people, Christians included, are running to liposuction and tummy tucks instead of conquering laziness to change their body the responsible way. Therefore, the question to ask here is, Can I create the same physical changes in a non-surgical way, by improving my lifestyle, eating, and activity level? Am I exploiting cosmetic surgery and seeking the easy way out? Would God rather me change my physicality through discipline and diligence?

Principle #5: God affirms the importance and relevance of the body for earthly life

     Some Christian philosophies degrade the body as being entirely evil and unimportant. This is only partially true. The body is corruptible (2Co 4:16), unredeemed (Ro 8:23), inferior to our spirit (Php 3:21), and cannot produce salvation (Jn 6:63, Php 3:3). However, it is not unimportant or irrelevant. In fact, Scripture affirms several ways in which the body is important and relevant for earthly life.
     First of all, our body is the jar of clay by which we hold and express God's treasure (2Co 4:7). It can be trained and habituated to become an instrument of righteousness (Ro 6:13, 1Ti 4:7). It can illustrate spiritual truths (Ro 1:20). When healthy, it can make us live longer and more enjoyably, "lengthening our days" and invigorating us with vibrancy. When beautified, it can open doors for us like Esther and David (Est 2, 1Sam 16:18), or create social influence for us like Absalom (2Sam 14:25, 15:1-6), or enhance our sexuality (SS 1:15,16); all this because man favors the outward appearance (1Sam 16:7). Therefore, the question to ask here is, Can cosmetic work somehow enhance my earthly life, or certain areas of it? 

Principle #6: Physicality is one-third of our self-image 

     I used to watch a popular show on TV, The Ugly Duckling. The show's goal was to take certain persons who were "glaringly unattractive" (hence The Ugly Duckling title) and recreate their appearance entirely over several months. Part of this was done through healthy lifestyle changes via personal trainers, nutritionists, counselors, fashioners, and so on, and part of it was done medically through cosmetic surgery. The show recorded the several month journey of each person, even spotlighting their deepest issues, reactions, and heartaches regarding their appearance. At times it was difficult to watch. The silent pain these men and women carried for never being asked on a date, never being called beautiful, never having someone do a double-take in public. Many of us take such social cookies for granted. Through this show God showed me some things.
     1Thessalonians 5:23 tells us God is at work in our spirit, soul, AND body. This doesn't mean He is just retraining our brain for holy purposes, it means He is sanctifying and restoring all of what we are to a preFall excellence-spiritually, soulically, physically. As I felt the bitter tears of the show's contestants (some were born-again Christians), and as I pondered 1Thessalonians 5:23, I realized our physicality is one-third of our self-image and overall identity. Our spirit, or new nature in Christ, is our foundational identity and operating center. Our soul, or unique emotional-mental design, is built on top of that. Our body is the final third. God created us spirit, soul, and body, each aspect contributing something unique to our overall personal worth. If our physicality is lagging behind or languishing somehow, it can and will affect our self-image, social image, and spiritual image in some way.
     When I saw the incredible changes in The Ugly Duckling contestants, how it tremendously elevated a part of their overall worth, how it affected their soulical and spiritual lives, I understood that we Christians have become extreme in hallowing modesty yet shunning physicality's positives. In some situations, cosmetic work can be a major blessing and restoration. Therefore, the question to ask here is, Though it is not foundational and central, how can physicality contribute to my overall self-image and identity?

Principle #7: Desiring greater appeal and attractiveness is not sinful

     Scripture affirms both modesty and beauty, and yes, they can coexist. Because of the world's extreme immorality and zero standards, Christians tend to overcompensate with hyper-modesty, equating tasteless apparel, overweightness, and physical mediocrity with being spiritual. Moreover, I have seen many unusually attractive Christians persecuted in churches. They are fit, fashionable, attractive, AND hungry for Jesus, but to some they are "still in the world" or "young in Christ". Such an attitude overlooks many scriptures, also seeming to betray a certain jealousy.
     Scripture freely validates physical beauty, and how that beauty affected people's lives, for good and evil. Absalom and Jezebel were presented as highly attractive, yet they both misused their beauty for evil, Absalom to influence the nation and lead a revolt against his father (2Sam 14:25, 15:1-14), Jezebel to manipulate a man of God (2Ki 9:30) and masses of people (1Ki 18:19, 21:8-11). Sarah was called "a very beautiful woman" (Gen 12:11-16), and she made Abram very wealthy because of it (v16). Granted, Abram's proposal might not be considered noble (v11-13), but we can still see the power of beauty to bless in the story. Scripture calls Rebekah "very beautiful" (24:16, 26:7). Scripture goes even further with Rachel, saying she was "lovely in form" (translation: a great body) and "beautiful" (29:17). Scripture says David had a "fine appearance and handsome features" (1Sam 16:12) and was a "fine-looking man" (v18). Song of Songs celebrates physical-sexual appeal entirely, and, we all know Esther mesmerized Xerxes and stole the queenship with her beauty (Est 2:1-18). Solomon said to "let your garments always be white, and let your head lack no oil" (Ecc 9:8), referring to excellent self-presentation. He also said "ointment and perfume delight the heart" (Pr 27:9 NKJV). Jesus said to have good self-presentation even when you are fasting (Mt 6:17). The Bible affirms good self-presentation and the social influence it can create for good. Therefore, the question to ask here is, Am I being bashful or timid about enhancing my appeal? If Scripture celebrates beauty appropriately, how can I do the same personally? How can I wield beauty's influence for good? 

Principle #8: The signature of the Spirit
      At the end of the day, after praying it through, after thinking through all the principles, the Spirit is the one that must seal the deal in every Christian's decision. I call it the signature of the Spirit. His "yes" or "no" or "wait" is the final signature on any decision, including cosmetic work. Galatians 5:25: Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Therefore, the question to ask here is, What is the Spirit saying to me about this? Has it been confirmed from a variety of sources outside myself?

The Rainfall Makes The Riverflow

Hello overflowing church!

The Spirit's presence...what is it like? How does it work? Why do some Christians and churches seem to carry His presence so strong, while others seem so devoid of it? Today's writing will answer those questions as we focus on this statement, the rainfall makes the riverflow. 

The Water Cycle
     The water cycle is simply the circulatory process water goes through in the earth's atmosphere. The cycle has four essential stages: evaporation, condensation, precipitation, and dispersion. Evaporation is when the sun heats the water on the earth's surface, causing it to vaporize and rise to the skies as water vapor. Condensation is when this rising water vapor rematerializes into water droplets, or clouds, in the sky. Precipitation is when enough water vapor has rematerialized and accumulated in the clouds, overwhelming it with moisture, therefore releasing rain back down to the earth. Dispersion is when this rainfall overflows the rivers, and as a result, the rivers disperse or distribute their water all over the earth through streams, tributaries, and creeks.

The Spiritual Water Cycle
     For this to make better sense, let's walk through the spiritual water cycle backwards.     

Dispersion John 7:37-39 says the Spirit inside us is like a river that flows and overflows. In other words, He disperses His living water all over the world through us. And that's what we want more of, powerful flow and overflow everywhere we go.

Precipitation For riverflow/dispersion to happen, there must first be precipitation. Spiritual precipitation, that is. Isaiah 44:3 says when the Spirit manifests His presence upon us, it is like rain falling from the heavens. Remember our statement, the rainfall makes the riverflow. This is from Psalm 65:9 (NKJV): You visit the earth and water it...the river of God is full of water. The context is literal, referring to the physical, but the imagery is imported to the spiritual in other passages. Consequently, the Spirit is likened to a riverflow (Jn 7:37-39) and a rainfall (Isa 44:3).      

     The Spirit will flow through us in direct proportion to the amount of Spirit-rain that falls on us. Riverflow/dispersion is impossible without rainfall/precipitation--one depends on the other. Same Holy Spirit, but different aspects of His presence. One is ministerial (riverflow), the other intimate (rainfall). Ministry overflow comes from intimate showers! God precipitates in the secret place!
     Let me flesh this out a bit more. Occasionally I come across a Christian that says, "Junior, I want the Spirit to use me in greater and more powerful ways, but how do I get Him to do it? My response is always the same: "The rainfall makes the riverflow. If you want the Spirit's river to overflow through you in amazing ways, you have to constantly be in His rainfall. Do you spend quality time daily in the rainfall of the Spirit?" Their answer is usually the same: "Sometimes...occasionally...I'm pretty busy...It's hard for me to get up early..." To which I reply: "Rainfall only happens when there is evaporation."
 
Evaporation For rain to fall (in nature), evaporation must first happen--something must first go up. Likewise, the Spirit's rainfall comes from "evaporating" prayer and worship. Hosea 10:12 and James 5:18 subtly allude to spiritual evaporation and precipitation. The amount of prayer and worship we evaporate determines the amount of rainfall precipitating from heaven, which determines the amount of riverflow dispersing through us. God is telling us that we need to evaporate prayer and worship more abundantly, staying in the Spirit-rainfall, and therefore dispersing His river's overflow. Evaporate prayer and worship!     
     Problem...many Christians don't evaporate willingly. They get lulled away by other interests or responsibilities or laziness. Therefore, the sun/Son has to "heat up" their life. Remember, evaporation is when the sun heats the water on the earth, causing it to vaporize and rise. When we don't willingly evaporate daily prayer and worship, personally and corporately, the Son will "heat up" our life with difficulties and frustrations (Ps 32:9). Don't wait for the Son to heat things up to force your prayer and worship evaporation. Get in the spiritual water cycle, be faithful to it daily, and live constantly in the overflow of the Spirit.
 
Condensation Sometimes it seems we are in a dry and thirsty land, no rain from heaven, even though we're faithfully evaporating prayer and worship. Remember condensation: it is when the clouds are steadily accumulating moisture/evaporation, and when there is enough moisture/evaporation to overwhelm the cloud, it releases all its rain, snow, and other precipitations to the earth. If your Spirit-rainfall is scarce, keep evaporating while you wait. God is trying your faithfulness, and your cloud is accumulating all your prayers and praises. Believe me precious friends, I've been through the water cycle a kazillion times...that cloud will eventually be overcome and release mighty rainshowers on your life, and your river will overflow everywhere! Keep evaporating, stay faithful, and let condensation have its perfect work.

Visionary Mapping

Thank God for maps!

   Recently, while in Colorado with my parents, I came upon a new appreciation for maps. My mother had just accepted a teaching position at Air Force, so I tagged along to move her in and cheer her on. As we entered Colorado Springs, though, we got lost. Thank God for maps! After analyzing the city map, we were able to find the right road and direction that led to our destination. I remember announcing to my parents, triumphantly, every approaching crossroad and landmark, assuring them we were right on track. I was amazed at how this piece of paper, this map, could tell us what to expect next, could assure us we were on the right road to our ultimate destination. Then the Spirit turned my light on with two words: visionary mapping. As I pondered this phrase, I began to understand a massive spiritual truth in new dimensions.
 
 
Visionary Mapping
     A map has one critical function: overview. It overviews the journey for you, the ultimate destination and all the major points along the way (cities, roads, rest areas, parks, landmarks, etc.). For example, if I drive to visit a friend in Florida, I use my map to pinpoint the city I'm going to, and, pinpoint all the major points along the way to verify I'm on the right road. If I do not see the major points I'm supposed to, I realize I'm lost and must reevaluate my position and direction.
     A visionary map is the spiritual equivalent of the physical one. It is a God-given mental overview of our ultimate destiny, and, all the smaller destinations along the way. This is what it means to live by vision, for without vision we perish, or get on the wrong road to the wrong destination (Pr 29:18 KJV). With visionary mapping, the Spirit periodically overviews our distant and immediate future to us (Jn 16:13, Isa 46:10), creating a maplike overview in our mind. Such divine previews enable us to live at an altered state of confidence and conviction, regardless of contraindications from within or without.
     For example, I know my own ultimate destiny, the pinnacle of Junior's life purpose. However, I also have several smaller destinations that I must reach before I can ever fully actualize the big one. My ultimate destiny and all the smaller ones along the way combine to form Junior's visionary map. This "map" provides a mental overview I can chew cud from until it materializes in reality. It dictates all of my relationships, surroundings, and decisions, for they must accommodate and harmonize with my map. This provides tremendous protection and direction. It also provides restful simplicity. It is how God keeps us on the path of divine destiny.
     We see visionary mapping in David's life. His ultimate destiny was to be king of Israel (1Sam 16:1-13), however, he had several minor destinations along the way. He spent time as a psalmist for King Saul (16:14-23), a military commander (18:5), a leader of four-hundred disenchanted (22:2), a cave-dweller (24:3), a servant-soldier for King Achish of Philistia (ch27), and others.
     As you and I read First and Second Samuel, we see a hindsight overview of David's life. Visionary mapping, though, is David seeing a foresight overview of his own life. He foresaw his ultimate destiny as king, as well as the minor seasons and destinations along the way. Generally speaking, he knew what was next, what to expect, and this reassured him he was on the right road, though it be rocky and rough. He had a divine map for his own future. David himself alludes to this: he guides me in paths of righteousness...He will instruct him in the way chosen for him...lead me, O LORD...lead me in a straight path...lead me in the way everlasting (Ps 23:3, 25:12, 5:8, 27:11, 139:24).

     Gladly, visionary maps are not only for the Davids of the Bible, but for all faithful believers of all ages. Psalm 119:105 assures us: Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path. "Your word" includes the general map of Scripture and the personal map the Spirit illuminates to each one individually. Paul, using his own terminology, says the same thing in Colossians 1:9: ...asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding. Once again, "his will" includes God's general will in Scripture and His specific will accessed through the Spirit (see also Ephesians 1:17 concerning "the Spirit of wisdom and revelation".) 
 
 
Visionary Mapping is not automatic
     We can and must download our life's map from heaven. However, this depends almost entirely on our daily intimacy with Jesus and our consumption of Scripture. The closer a person walks with Jesus, the clearer and more specific their visionary map will be. Their distant and immediate foresight will be more detailed and more accurate. Those that walk inconsistently or half-heartedly with the Lord will not enjoy clear visionary maps, or the blessings they secure.
     Prioritize private prayer, worship, and Bible study daily (Col 4:2, Ps 1:2,3). Don't fudge, cut corners, or backslide on these do-or-die lifelines. Really seek to connect with the Lord and His love everyday (Ps 105:4). Become efficient in perceiving the Spirit (Mk 4:23-25). Obey what you read in Scripture (Jn 14:21,23), and obey His nudges, prompts, and impressions (Gal 5:25). Resolve whatever He tells you to resolve. If you walk closely, consistently, and cooperatively with Jesus, there is no good thing He will withhold from you (Ps 84:11), not even your very own visionary map.

Parenting 911

    Children conform to what they see and hear repeatedly. They live by a subconscious premise that dad and mom are gods. Every touch is felt twice as deep...every word replayed twice as much...every absence languished twice as long. Walk gingerly! 

Treat your spouse with love and honor.

     People recreate their parents' relationship in their own romantic life. Of course, this is not always true, but it happens enough to constitute a predictable trend. Girls drift toward boys that reflect their father/father-figure, boys drift toward girls that reflect their mother/mother-figure, and both sexes drift toward a relationship that mirrors their parents'. Scripture alludes to this phenomenon as generational impressioning, and can be used for good or evil. Consequently, the first and greatest impression parents must imprint on their children's tabula rasa is a wholesome and fulfilling marriage. When spouses consistently treat one another with deep love and respect, the child's imagination previews what he can recreate for himself. If you don't graphically define romantic love for your children, Desperate Housewives will. 

TIPS: Show affection around your children. Let them hear you say "I love you" and "You mean the world to me" and "You are an amazing husband/wife" and other verbal strokes. Have weekly dates and explain to them what and why. Defer to one another in the little things, like handing over the remote control or relinquishing the thermostat (kids notice all this). Do not dispute in front of them. Never jokingly embarrass or belittle one another. Most importantly, let them see you praying and seeking Jesus together, as a couple.

Transfer genderized qualities.

     Genesis 1:27 states that, from within Himself, God made two separate human genders. Together, male and female would comprise and reflect His total image. God is capable of both fathering (Isa 9:6) and mothering (66:13), of steadfastness (40:10) and sensitivity (v11). (NOTE: God nevertheless defines Himself in the masculine, as "Father" and "Son" and "His Spirit".)
     We need both male and female traits, then, to be whole and balanced like our Creator. This does not minimize gender, for gender dictates which sex will be dominant and definitive in our psychobiology. It does, however, call us to a practical gender-balance. For example, extreme maleness detaches a person from sensitive qualities--how many unfeeling and non-nurturing people do we know? These people have overdeveloped maleness and underdeveloped femaleness (like Jezebel). Likewise, extreme femaleness detaches a person from steadfast qualities--how many spineless and exploitable people do we know? These people have overdeveloped femaleness and underdeveloped maleness (like Ahab).
     Gender is our God-given psychobiology, gender-balance is a practical fluidness to move back and forth between sensitivity and steadfastness. A gender-balanced person is functional in both male and female nuances, yet lives primarily through their God-given gender. King David is probably the best example in all Scripture of a gender-balanced person. He showed amazing fluidity to be both sensitive and steadfast, yet was unmistakably a man's man.  

    Children and teens need a steady diet of both genderized qualities. If not, they will likely develop with gender extremes. Fathers are to transfer the signature male trait, steadfastness (Isa 9:6), mothers are to transfer the female one, sensitivity, (66:13). If the transfers are consistent and successful, the child will develop into a solid completeness. They will not crave codependent relationships to supply their missing half. Such people meet the ideal profile for very fulfilling relationships.

TIPSSensitivity  By example and entreaty, motivate children to share their feelings and become comfortable with heart-talk. Validate and reward them verbally when they do. Help them see that "stuffing" is harmful, as is communicating only from the head. Encourage them to listen to others with empathy and validation. Affirm their tears and encourage them to cry when necessary. "Strong people don't cry" was born in a satanic strategy meeting somewhere in Plasticville. Jesus wept often (Heb 5:7). Develop their physical affection by being affectionate with them. If you are not affectionate for personal reasons, resolve it and become affectionate. Hear that dads?   Steadfastness  Let them see you standing and speaking against evil and injustice in appropriate ways. Have clear moral principles on which you will not vacillate, and motivate them to do the same. Make hard decisions with their knowledge (when appropriate), explaining what and why. Help them ignore their feelings and do what is best when the two are in conflict. Show them that knowledge and wisdom are the essence of strength (Pr 24:5), and a strong backbone comes from a strong mind. Therefore, read around them, to them, and with them things that have value and substance.

Trigger unique self-expression.

     Just as each child has a God-given gender, so also each child has a God-given personality, or unique self-expression. Personality can be quantified to a degree. Gary Smalley has done a good job for the church in simplifying and Christianizing the four basic personality types. After all, God Himself has four basic attributes from which the four personality types flow (Gen 2:10, Eze 1:10, the four gospels, etc.).

     It is important to emphasize, however, that within the four arch-types there are idiosyncrasies and subtleties unique to the individual. In this way there is no one in the whole world like us! Each of us is truly a divine masterpiece! Parents are not to create "mini-Me's" of their children. The tragedy with life after The Fall is that children were fashioned in the image of their parents (Gen 5:3), instead of the image of God (v1). Every child is carrying a unique expression of God in them, fearfully and wonderfully fashioned by the Maker's brilliance. Parents are to do anything and everything they can to let their child's divine personality breathe and blossom. You may not know what it is, they may not know what it is, but neither of you will ever know what it is if you force a duplicate of yourself on your child. They are your child, but they are not you!         

TIPS: Encouraging unique self-expression in children is simpler than many parents realize. Understand "black, white, and gray", the message of Romans 14. If it is clearly, and I do mean clearly, right or wrong according to Scripture (black/white), then speak out and rule, permit or prohibit. If it is not a black-n-white matter, but one of personal preference or conviction (gray), then be silent and implicitly force them to discover their own variance. Don't tell them what they should like or dislike, prefer or not prefer. Encourage them to navigate their own gray-area choices, and as they do, do not criticize or belittle when it differs from you. Your job is to keep them within safe pasture (the black-n-white), but not to tell them where to eat the grass or when to eat it or how much to eat or if to drink from the brook while they eat (the gray). Make sense? 
     Your children will favor you immensely if you successfully administrate black, white, and gray with them. Hear me parents, they want and need both: the safety of black-n-white biblical boundaries AND the liberty of unique self-expression in the grays.
 
Train in godly habits. 

     Ephesians 6:4 commands parents, at the father's pilotage, to raise children in the training and truth of the Lord. This command fascinates me, since genuine godliness cannot be imposed or forced (1Sam 8:1-5). Therefore, parents are to train their children in godly habitsin the hopes and prayers that one day they will embrace it in their heart. Note the difference in habit and heart. Parents cannot do the heart part. Only the Holy Spirit and the child's own freewill can give godliness an everlasting home in the heart. By developing godly habits in your children, though, you are making it much easier for them to one day embrace it as their own. 

     Some sidenotes. First, children are more likely to embrace the Lord if He is presented to them delicately. Fear, guilt, and coercion produce temporary compliance, but permanent rebellion. Secondly, children are more likely to embrace the Lord if they sense "it works" for their parents. Children are irrational, yet highly practical, they think in terms of toys and objects. They will evaluate your God, then, by how well He works--like a toy. Parents, does your relationship with God "work"? Are you positive and optimistic? Are you selfless? Are you honest? Are you inspiring? Even children can x-ray hypocrisy.      

TIPS: Train them to elevate Scripture. Saturate your home with verses (Deu 6:6-9). The Spirit will pull your children's eyes to a certain verse at just the right time to create a personal experience. When discussing Scripture, don't preach at them, use personal testimonies (Ps 78:4) and creative parables (v2,3) that arrest their imagination. You'll have plenty of opportunities to discipline with the Word when they test your authority. Train them to pray and worship daily (Col 4:2). Don't push them, simply place them in the Presence and set the example. 

     Train them to honor all legitimate authority (Ro 13:1-7). Train them to have integrity (1Chr 29:17 NIV, Jer 17:10), not perfection. Train them to give freely (Lk 6:38). Train them to admit fault and failure humbly (Jas 5:16), and to forgive from the heart (Mt 18:34,35). Follow the Spirit parenting through you.

Tutor in basic life skills.

     Many good, even godly, parents stumble here. Godly training is central, but it won't cook you dinner, do your laundry, iron your clothes, get you in shape, balance your checkbook, give you good hygiene, charm you with social skill, or teach you other practical life skills 

     Scripture calls for excellence in basic life skills. Solomon said "ointment and perfume delight the heart" (Pr 27:9 NKJV), praising hygiene that welcomes. He also said, "Let your garments always be white, and let your head lack no oil" (Ecc 9:8), praising clean clothes and good self-presentation. Jesus echoed Solomon, even while fasting (Mt 6:17). Proverbs urges sound money management (Pr 21:20), graceful social skills (Pr 12:18, 15:30), and diligent work (Pr 12:24, 21:5). Parents, then, are responsible for tutoring their kids in all these. Children well-schooled in this regard have high self-efficacy to manage the housekeeping side of life well.

TIPS: Have good life skills yourself! Let them help you cook, clean, fold, pay bills. Bring them exercising with you, or do fun things with them that are active. Stop drugging them with sugar and junk and eat healthier around them and with them. Let them see you interact socially and conversate gracefully. Mothers, tutor your daughters in tasteful beautification; fathers, your sons in handsomeness. Strong life skills are very welcoming, open many doors, and invoke the favor of God and man.
 
Teach wholesome relationships. 

     Those who relate with the wise become wise, but those who relate with fools suffer (Pr 13:20). Psalm 101 is an excellent passage about prioritizing good and godly relationships, while distancing from harmful ones. Paul reminds the Corinthian Christians and us that bad company corrupts good character (1Cor 15:33). Ecclesiastes 9:18: ...one sinner destroys much good. Parents have the calling to maintain wholesome company themselves, then educate their children to do the same.  

   For several years I did youth ministry. The cycle was predictable and frustrating: a young person would catch fire for the Lord, walk with Him for a time, then start deteriorating spiritually as they prioritized negative relationships over wholesome ones. To be blunt, many Christian parents are flimsy in this area. To not alienate their children, they become invertebrates, spinelessly indulging their kids' destructive "friends" and romantic choices. After children become independent adults, they are free in God's sight to make their own choices without parental endorsement. However, as long as they are under the parental canopy, parents are under Scriptural orders to sift their kids' relationships for them, even more, to educate them thoroughly on the whats and hows of wholesome company. 

TIPS: Parents, educating children in relational soundness has nothing to do with your personal hang-ups, preferences, or expectations, but with Scriptural black-n-whites. In other words, race, nationality, economic status, dress style, or any other superficial quality is immaterial. Forbidding your children to relate on such premises is indeed shallow and sinful. Remember how God dealt with Aaron and Miriam for their racism when Moses married an Ethiopian (Num 12:1,2)? Racism be cursed. 
     Scripture has relationship black-n-whites, this and this alone is what parents are supposed to implement. Let Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) be a lighthouse: The righteous should choose his friends carefully, for the way of the wicked leads them astray. 
     Before I list some biblical relational values, understand that most young people will not be "there". The key is to ask yourself and God, Is there a willingness to learn and grow in this young person?  We all can sense if a person, even a young person, has seeds of willingness or rebellion germinating in them. Teach your kids to look for genuine teachability in others, rather than perfect people who do not exist. Parents and all Christians, the season has come to resurrect the Bible's relational values and make headway towards a more wholesome relational life.
     Scripture defines a friend as someone who..... 
 
          .....walks with God (Ps 119:63, 1Sam 23:16).  
          .....is an intercessor, a faithful pray-er (Job 16:20,21, Dan 2:17,18, 1Sam 23:16). 
          .....encourages, empowers, and helps you  (Ecc 4:9-12, SS 6:1, 2Co 12:19); does not exploit your weakness 
               like Ahithophel (2Sam 16:15-23, 17:1-23).
          .....admires you (1Sam 18:1-4, SS 1:4); does not have a jealous eye like Saul (1Sam 18:9).
          .....struggles and suffers with you (Pr 17:17, Jud 11:37, 1Sam 20, Est 4:16); does not dip out when lack or 
               hardship hits (Pr 19:4,7). 
          .....gives and serves, even sacrificially (1Sam 18:4, 20:4, Jn 15:13, Ac 24:23, 27:3); is not stingy (Pr 23:6).
          .....is gracious (Pr 22:11), not hot-tempered (22:24, 19:19).  
          .....overlooks and covers (Pr 17:9); does not nitpick or corrode another's self-image through negativity (Pr 11:12
               NIV).
          .....is honest and counseling when it matters (Pr 27:6,9).
          .....is open (Ex 33:11, Pr 27:5, Jn 15:15, 2Co 6:11-13).
 
Tighten the security of their environment. 

     Children yearn to know their living perimeter is secure. Because of their smallness and lack of resources, they inherently sense their own vulnerability. Consequently, their eyes look intently to mom and dad for insulation and safeguard. When they perceive their living environment is secure, they settle emotionally and gain the ability to trust. Ultimately, they transpose this trust onto God, believing He can secure just as mom and dad did. Children need to feel safe to develop well. Unsure children turn into unsure adults, constantly looking about, obsessing that fear and danger loom around every corner. 

TIPS: I urge parents to do whatever necessary to create security in their children's living environment. An alarm system? Sensory lights? Watchdog? Moving to a new location? Having an emergency action plan? Important phone numbers? Verbal reassurance? Different families will need different solutions, but find them! Tighten the security of your child's environment, and they will learn to trust in you, and one day, in God. Jerusalem was God's holy city and dwellingplace, yet even it had citadels, watchtowers, ramparts, and high walls (Ps 48:12,13). Why is your child's dwellingplace any different?

Take out a financial or material inheritance for them.

     Proverbs 13:22 says, A good man leaves an inheritance for his children's children. Proverbs 19:14 says, Houses and wealth are inherited from parents. Familial inheritance is something long lost in many contemporary Christian circles. In biblical culture, parents were responsible for accumulating and reserving a material inheritance for their children, even their children's children! This is tough meat to chew for many American Christian parents. Let's look at Scripture.   

     In Scripture, children labored within the family environment (Gen 30:35, 37:12-14, Lk 15:29). This is where they learned hard work, diligence, and responsibility. This is where they "qualified" for their future inheritance. Each child, then, had some type of material inheritance reserved by the parents (property, houses, wealth, etc.), but it could not be gotten until the proper time, until the child was mature and responsible enough to receive it (Gal 4:1,2). The prodigal son story highlights receiving an inheritance before time, as does Proverbs 20:21. In contemporary America we have it flipped. Children coast through life until they finish high school or college, then they enter "the real world" and become harshly acquainted with hard work and responsibility. If we return to Scripture, parents are to "test" their kids all throughout childhood and adolescence, developing work ethic and responsibility in them, qualifying them for a material inheritance to be gotten at the ideal time. 
 
     This inheritance is for one main purpose: to fund and facilitate their life purpose in God. How many destinies would be reached sooner if faithful Christians had adequate funding for destiny expenses? We cannot throw all the blame on "God's timing" and "God's sovereignty". God's order (one aspect of it) is to fund destiny through parental inheritance, and when that order is lost or misunderstood, faithful Christians are delayed and God is forced to provide in other ways.    

     TIPS: Proverbs 13:22 and 19:14 presuppose financial/material prosperity. For, parents cannot take out a financial/material inheritance for their children if they are impoverished or barely surviving. Now let me be very clear: I am NOT a believer in this greedy, materialistic, hyper-prosperity theology that many are chasing. It is simply Christianized materialism. Having said that, understand there is a consistent biblical truth that places financial capability with God's people (Deu 8:18, 28:12, Ps 112:3, Pr 3:9,10, 8:18,21, Ecc 2:26, 5:19, Mk 10:29,30, 1Ti 6:17, 3Jn 2). If you do not believe it, pray for it, and strategize for it, how will you ever prosper enough to leave an inheritance for your kids? Start believing, praying, and strategizing about how you can access God's financial inheritance for you as a Christian and Christian parent. Your signature strengths, talents, and gifts are a good starting point (1Sam 16:18-22). So is giving consistently (Pr 3:9,10).

Transition fully through parental roles.

     Finally, just as children evolve into adults, so also parents must transition fully through parental roles and stages.  

     Role 1: The Controller  This is the "do-don't do" stage of parenting, which covers babyhood, toddlerhood, and childhood. During these years parents essentially "control" everything pertaining to the child. They monitor and micromanage them closely, constantly saving their life!     

     Role 2: The Authority  This is the "coaching" stage of parenting, covering pre-pubescence and adolescence. An athletic coach does two things: establishes/enforces the team's playing system (boundaries) and encourages player creativity and autonomy within that system (freedom). So also parents "coach" their children during adolescence. They are to establish the system by setting clear boundaries and defining their authority (like curfew times, hang-out locations, friend requirements, media allowances, personal health, and so on); and, they are to allow much freedom and flexibility within that system. It's also like shepherding or herding. The shepherd fences in his pasture, setting boundaries the animals cannot exceed. Within those boundaries, though, they can roam and graze as they please. This stage redefines the parental role from total control to general authority, allowing the child to practice life and individuate in safe pasture.

     Role 3: The Friend  This is the "co-equal" stage of parenting, and covers adulthood. This is where parents fully recognize, in word and deed, the independent adulthood and co-equal friendship of their child, celebrating their child's launch into adultness. The total control stage of childhood is expired, the general authority stage of adolescence is expired, and now the friend stage is in effect. Many parents extend stages 1 and 2 into their child's adulthood, attempting to "fix" certain past parenting mistakes. Doing so invites tension, disorder, even demonic antagonism, as this is not God's blueprint. If parental mistakes are perceived at stages 1 and 2, ask God to fix it. Be humble and make restitution if necessary and possible, but look ahead toward His restoration. Transition!
 

Looking For An Opening: Entry Strategies

 

The Call To Enter

  Jesus told the church at Philadelphia: See, I have placed before you an open door that no one can shut (Rev 3:8). Though the nature of that door was unspecified, we are told that an opening, and an implicit call to enter, was presented to the Philadelphians.
     Our entire Christian lives demand habitual entry into God-ordained places. Like the Philadelphians, God calls us to enter, and more importantly, to find the opening.
Psalm 105:13 says Israel went from place to place on their journey to the promised land. These places progressively lead to our destiny too. They cannot be skipped or sidestepped, for, at each place, we lose a bit more of what we do not need and we gain a bit more of what we do.

     These "places" can be just about anything: a relationship, job, wisdom, opportunity, financial state, geographical location, power, freedom, a personal desire--anything. Keep that broad definition in mind; place is simply a word picture. As we commune with God daily, He will illuminate our next place to us and calls us to enter.

 
Wrong Ways To Enter  
 
     Before going into the strategy room, we gotta take a look at wrong methods of entry. Entering haphazardly can damage our next place, and create headaches and delays God never intended.
     Entering with force  Shechem desired entry into a romantic relationship with Dinah (Gen 34:1-4). In his folly he forced her sexually and violated her (v2). He ended up forfeiting Dinah, which Jacob would have certainly permitted (see his commentary in 49:5-7 about Simeon and Levi's actions in 34:25-30). Shechem also ended up losing his life and bringing destruction on his entire people (34:25-29). 
     Whether it's a strong will, tough talk, a pushy attitude, or an intimidating presence, we cannot enter with brute force. Remember Shechem! 
     Entering with haste  John Mark entered Paul's ministry team early on (Ac 12:25, 13:5). Soon after, he deserted Paul and the kingdom work they were doing (13:13, 15:38). Later, Paul and Barnabas sharply disputed John Mark's role and readiness for ministry (15:37-40). John Mark entered the work with haste. He was not ready, and therefore, he could not handle his place in Paul's team. He damaged what he had entered, splintering two important apostolic leaders. Jesus said not to enter with haste, but to count the cost and evaluate your entrance (Lk 14:28-32). Proverbs 20:21: An inheritance quickly gained at the beginning will not be blessed at the end. Remember John Mark!
     Entering with presumption  Uzziah entered the Lord's temple presumptuously, to burn incense as only priests were allowed to do (2Chr 26:16). He had become so powerful in God that he pridefully presumed to enter a place outside the boundary lines of his inheritance. Even after Azariah confronted his brash entry (v17,18), he raged and resisted, forcing God to afflict him with leprosy (v19,20). He was leprous until his death (v21).
     We are authorized to enter only the places within the boundary lines of our inheritance (Ps 16:6). Though such places may be included in someone else's inheritance, if it is not a part of ours, we are to stay away and not seek entry. Remember Uzziah! 
     Entering without divine support  After Israel rejected the report of the spies and incurred divine sentencing (Num 14:1-38), they nonetheless sought to enter Canaan without the ark of God's presence (v39-45). Even after being warned, they went to battle at the entry point of Kadesh Barnea and were miserably defeated--and did not enter. Seeking to enter a God-place without God is a contradiction of terms. Caleb and Joshua said it perfectly (v8): If the Lord is pleased with us, he will lead us into that land...and will give it to us. Judges 11:24: Whatever the LORD our God has given us, we will possess. We enter with full divine support or we chill out in Moab delaying gratification.
 
Entry Strategies
 
  Some entries require only one of the below strategies, some require more than one simultaneously, and some require different ones at different moments within the same situation. You and the Spirit are co-tacticians. Regularly browse this list and apply whichever one lights up and fits.
 
"The Keyholder Strategy"
     Nehemiah sought entry into Jerusalem to rebuild its wall (Neh 1). King Artaxerxes was God's "keyholder"--he had the power to open the door or keep it shut (2:1-9). He opened it. The Hebrew exiles sought re-entry into Jerusalem their homeland; Cyrus was God's keyholder (Ez 1, Isa 45:13). He opened the way. The newly converted Paul sought entry into the church fellowship. He could not enter until God's keyholder, Barnabas, opened the way for him (Ac 9:26-28). Jesus, our precious Savior, sought entry into death--yes, death--to accomplish our redemption. Pilate was God's keyholder, as even Jesus acknowledged and Pilate recognized (Jn 19:10,11), for he opened the way to the crucifixion (v16).
     Keyholders are golden. They are door-openers, people God has set in our life to give us entry into our next place. After being emotionally debilitated for many years, the Lord sent an amazing Baptist pastor into my life. Not only did he bring me life-changing healing through his personal friendship and ministry, he also financed my professional Christian counseling and ongoing discipleship for over two years. I was needing entry into a place of emotional wholeness, and this pastor was God's keyholder. Those years were the single most important years of my Christian life.
     Some entries require keyholders. Find God's keyholder. Oh yeah, one more thing...your keyholder may the last person you want it to be. God won't change your keyholder to accomodate your issues--change your issues to accomodate your keyholder.
 
"The Back-door Strategy"
     David sought entry into Jerusalem to capture Zion (2Sam 5:6,7). The problem is, it was heavily guarded by the Jebusites. Direct entry was impossible, he had to use a type of "back-door". That back-door was a water shaft that secretly led into the city (v8). David exploited it and entered. Joshua's two spies sought entry into Jericho to survey it (Jsh 2). However, Israel's military reputation preceded them, causing Jericho to be on code-red alert. The spies certainly could not enter the city as such, they needed a back-door. That back-door was a prostitute named Rahab (v1). They went to her and entered in. 
     God sought entry into Gentile high places with the gospel. He needed a back-door, so he let his evangelists get arrested as criminals (Mt 10:18). Not pleasant, but nonetheless a back-door entry. Similarly, God has been seeking entry into Muslim nations for many centuries. Many of these nations have been tightly shut to Christian influences. Recently however, the Lord has found Himself a back-door through sports, internet, and television. Over 600 Muslims are now being saved daily.
     Some entries require back-doors. This is mainly true of places that are heavily guarded by demonic watchmen and human obstacles. Ask the Spirit to show you the back-doors and underground water shafts. In other words, how can you enter indirectly, undercover, disguised? Once you're in you're in, the Lord will sort things out from there.


"The Providence Strategy"
     Providence refers to God's unconscious guidance of mundane events. Providential events are subtle and seemingly normal, yet their orchestration can only be attributed to God. For example, meeting a certain person, stumbling upon an unexpected opportunity, a timely song on the radio, visiting a church and hearing exactly what you need, and so on. Providence unconsciously places us at the right place at the right time. Such events seem to be part of life's ordinary flow, but a closer look reveals God pulling strings behind the curtain. Some entries require providence to create an opening.
     Jacob sought entry into a marriage with someone within his larger family system (Gen 28:1-5). He journeyed to Paddan Aram, a totally foreign land to him. How would he find his relatives? A wife? He trusted God to providentially pull strings and move pieces. Sure enough, Jacob walks right into an amazing scene filled with divine fingerprints (29:1-12). He entered in. Isaac also sought entry into a marriage. His story in Genesis 24 also centers on providential happenings, giving him entry into Rebekah's romance. The first seven chapters of Esther contain perhaps the greatest examples of providence in all of Scripture. Because of it, Esther entered the palace as queen, the Jews entered deliverance, and Mordecai entered honor and recognition.
     Other examples: Jonathan's providential entry into the Philistine outpost (1Sam 14:10), Saul's providential death in battle and David's entry into the kingship (1Sam 31, 2Sam 2,5), Absalom's very strange providential death and David's re-entry into Jerusalem (2Sam 18:9, ch19).

"The Personal Quality Strategy"
     Esther sought entry into a marriage with Xerxes. God gave her a personal quality that could create her own opening--physical beauty. She developed it and wielded it. Thus, her gift opened her way and she entered (Est 2). David sought entry into Saul's service. God gave him personal qualities that could create his own opening--musical talent, speaking ability, and physical beauty (1Sam 16:18). His gifts opened a way and he entered (v21,22). Paul sought entry into the apostolic circle (Gal 2:1-10). God gave him a very unique apostolic quality (Gentile frontrunner), which the other apostles quickly recognized (v7-9). His gift opened a way and he entered.
     Some entries require that we develop and wield our God-given personal qualities to enter. What personal quality, grace, strength, talent, or skill do you have? Your gift might be the very thing God wants to use to open your door. Present it confidently if it be so.


"The Conflict Strategy"
     God sought entry into Philistia in Samson's day, for they were ruling over Israel. Scripture makes a fascinating statement (Jud 14:4): ...the LORD, who was seeking an occasion to confront the Philistines. God was looking to pick a fight! He wanted entrance into Philistia (through a person) to break their back from within. Direct provocation was the only way in. Samson was raised up for this purpose. Most of Israel's promise land entrance happened in this way, through direct military conflict. 1Corinthians 11:19 is very enlightening concerning this: No doubt there have to be differences among you to show which of you have God's approval. Some levels of public favor can only be entered through direct conflict with others!
     Some entries, then, will require such interpersonal battles. Ecclesiastes 3:7,8: ...a time to speak...a time for war. This does not mean being rageful, hateful, or unChristlike. It does mean some entry points are guarded by difficult people, and those difficult people have to be contended with and nullified head-on. Rebuking spirits won't do much good here, because it is a difficult person that must be contended with. Not all difficult people are demonized, some are simply emotionally troubled by lingering issues. There is a way to have social conflict that is straightforward and bold, yet Christlike and non-personal (Ac 15:2). Someway, somehow, such conflicts either change the door-blocker for the better or remove his ability to continue blocking your entry.

"The Wisdom Strategy"
     This strategy is the polar opposite of The Conflict Strategy. Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego sought entry into Nebuchadnezzar's service. The only way they could enter was if they displayed superior wisdom that could somehow benefit the king. In other words, they needed to have multiple streams of functional intelligence that could enhance his administration's effectiveness. And they did (Dan 1:17). Because of it, "they entered the king's service" (v19). Similarly, Joseph sought entry into his destiny as ruler of Egypt. His entrance strategy? He displayed superior wisdom (Gen 41:39,40).
     Wisdom is the missing link to success for so many people, leaders, ministries, organizations, nations. There is position and power and talent, but none of it will fly or fly long or fly high without wisdom. Wisdom opens many God-places. Ecclesiastes 7:19: Wisdom makes one wise man more powerful than ten rulers in a city. Wow! Even if a person does not have the actual gift of verbal wisdom (1Co 12:8), if it is required for entry, God will stream it to the persistent seeker (Pr 2:1-6, 8:17, Jas 1:5).
     Solomon contrasted wisdom, war (The Conflict Strategy), and entry. Ecclesiastes 9:16,18: Wisdom is better than strength...Wisdom is better than weapons of war. There is a time to enter with war and conflict, and a time to enter with wisdom and diplomatic intelligence. David entered many places through war, and Solomon entered many places through wisdom. Entering with wisdom is the ideal or "better" (less messy), but entering with war is the occasional reality. You and the Spirit figure it out.

"The Environment Strategy"
     Sometimes the opening is an environment. If we just get in this or that environment, we will enter our next God-place. I have seen this strategy so clearly in my own life. I was a professional soccer player. However, my entry into that place did not happen until I changed my playing environment. I needed to leave the youth team I was playing for in a small and limited city, and play for a youth team that had excellent players and pro-level coaches. Within three years doors were opening for me to play pro.
     I also see this dynamic at work in ministry. Many aspiring ministers have God-dreams of great influence and broad ministry. At the same time, many of them are unwilling to leave their current spiritual environment and relocate to a richer one where openings would appear left and right.
     Part of David's destiny was to be an unbeatable warrior. To enter, he needed to relocate into Saul's service where he could develop in such a thick military environment. He changed environments (1Sam 16:14-23, 18:2), developed quickly (18:5), and entered his God-place (18:13,14). In some situations, the entry is in a certain environment. Find that environment, get in it, and the opening will appear.
 
"The Consecration Strategy"

     Israel sought entry into the promise land. Before advancing on Jericho and the rest of Canaan, God required them to be consecrated and circumcised (Jsh 5:1-8). Afterwards, they entered in. Psalm 118:19,20 connects consecration and entry: Open for me the gates of righteousness...This is the gate of the LORD through which the righteous may enter (underline added). Isaiah 26:2 says the same: Open the gates that the righteous nation may enter, the nation that keeps faith (underline added).
     Some entries require a greater consecration. Our current level of godliness is less than the place we are entering, therefore, we must grow in godliness to gain entry. The gate of the Lord opens to the righteous! Repent, make restitution, change, break the habit, seek and give forgiveness--clean house!

"The Humble Service Strategy"
     David sought entry into Philistia to escape Saul (1Sam 27:1-4). Yes, the same Philistines that David killed ten thousands of (18:7, 29:5). To gain entry, David humbly served King Achish in any way he could (27:5,12), even fighting for him (29:1,2,6). Jesus mentioned The Humble Service Strategy in Luke 14:7-11, telling us to gain exaltation and entry by assuming the lowest place of humility and servitude.
     Some entries require us to go low. We must be willing to humble ourselves as low as necessary to get in the door. A famous Christian leader tells her story of entering her teaching ministry. After approaching her pastor with the desire to teach, he told her to clean the church bathrooms. He gave her more menial responsibilities that tried her humility. After passing them all, she was given a teaching role at her church, and eventually, the world. Try going in low!
 
"The Miracle Strategy"
    
Israel sought entry into the promised land via the Jordan River at flood stage (Jsh 3). It was an impossible task on every level, only a genuine miracle from heaven could get them across. God intervened, and His hand stopped the rushing river so the people could cross over on dry ground (v15-17). Israel sought entry into Jericho (Jsh 6). It was an impossible task on every level, only a miraculous intervention from God could accomplish it. By the descent of God's hand the wall collapsed, and Israel entered (v20). God Himself sought entry into the earth as a God-man to accomplish redemption--an impossible endeavor on every level. Only a miracle. The Holy Spirit supernaturally impregnates a virgin by which perfect Divinity would be clothed in perfect humanity: the God-man, Jesus Christ, the Redeemer, God in the flesh.
     Some entries require a raw miracle. No keyholder, no conflict, no wisdom, no environment, no consecration, no personal quality--nothing--can create an opening. If God doesn't do a 100% bona fide miracle it won't happen. In such cases, we are to fast and pray and cry out to God Most High to do what only He can do!
 
                                                ENTER!

Possessing The High Place

Hello victorious church!

Last December I had an important experience in Jaen, Spain. Shortly after arriving, the Lord spoke to me from Ezekiel 40:4: Son of man, look with your eyes and hear with your ears and pay attention to everything I am going to show you, for that is why you have been brought here. Tell the house of Israel everything you see.
 
While there, I visited Castillo de Santa Cantalina, a magnificent Arabic castle-fortress from the 8th century. The castle sits on a high hill overlooking the city, providing breathtaking views. A worship leader pointed to an equally high hill opposite us, informing us that it was the former location of a satanic altar. A local pastor had climbed the hill to pray, found the altar, and faithfully destroyed it.
 
As I looked over the landscape and listened to the story, the Spirit descended on me with tremendous illumination. Everything made sense. Ezekiel 40:4 flashed back. I knew why I was in Spain. 
 
Both the 8th-century Arabs and the recent satanists coveted the highest places in the city from which to rule and safeguard their agenda. Both understood a critical truth: whoever possesses the high place defines everything below it. The Arabic castle represented human leadership and authorities, and the satanists represented spiritual forces that seek to malign and misinfluence such authority. The pastor represented the church, who is promised and commanded to overtake the high places in every sector of earthly life.
 
What is the high place?
    
The high place is an epithet for leadership and authority. It is used in Scripture alongside mountain or hill or high hill. All these word-pictures refer to the same thing: a public position or standing that wields social influence, one of decision-making and direction-setting, one capable of producing change within the corresponding social system. The high place is the top spot, even if that top is not very high. 
     The high place can be occupied by a political leader, head coach, department chairman, general manager, commanding officer, movie director, ideal schoolteacher, best-selling artist, star athlete, or any other. Once a person attains any measure of recognition and leadership in a field, he is in the high place. The head garbage-man supervising all the other garbage-men is in the high place. He wields a certain power to influence all those under his care. Remember the kindergarten playground? Whoever was "king of the sandbox" made the rules in the sandbox. Even small children have an instinct for the high place.
     Scripture is filled with high place principles. David occupied the highest high place in Israel as king. Consequently, he referred to his sphere of influence and responsibility as "my mountain" (Ps 30:7). Daniel occupied a high place in Babylon, and because of it, Nebuchadnezzar was saved and Babylon enjoyed a period of national worship of Jehovah (Dan 4:34-37, 6:25-27). Esther occupied a very high place as queen of Persia, and because of it, Israel wiggled her way out of total extermination. Cornelius occupied a high place as centurion (army commander), great family leader, and respected benefactor (Ac 10:1,2). Because of it, his entire social network was saved (v44-48) and the gospel advanced to the Gentiles (11:15-18).  
     Jesus came to reclaim earth's high place from Satan. See the divine sarcasm...Jesus used mountains and hills to teach, heal, exorcise, and do miracles (Mt 5:1, 15:29-39), mocking Satan's use of a high mountain to flaunt his authority during the forty-day trial (Mt 4:8, Lk 4:5). Even more so, Jesus sat down on the mountain to do His wonders (Mt 5:1, 15:29), silently illustrating that His seat of authority was about to replace Satan's on earth's high place. After His ascension, He sat down again at the "highest place" (Php 2:9, Eph 1:20,21).
     Don't let these lofty examples bother you. Even the Spirit-filled head garbage-man is in a high place, and even he is divinely empowered to change the hill he sits atop of.
 
What is the history of the high place?
     The history of the high place revolves around the highest of all high places: Mount Zion. There are two Mount Zions in Scripture, the high hill in Jerusalem where David's citadel and Solomon's temple existed (2Sam 5:7, Ps 74:2,3, Mic 3:12), and the celestial mountain in heaven where God sits enthroned (Heb 12:22, Rev 14:1, Isa 14:13, Eze 28:14,16). The celestial Mount Zion is our focus.
     You know the story. As the anointed, ordained, guardian cherub of God's throne, Satan dramatically beheld the most glorious high place in existence (Eze 28:14). Day after day, he frolicked in inconceivable Glory, "on the holy mount of God...walked among the fiery stones" (v14). Eventually, an equally inconceivable thought flickered in his imagination: "I will sit enthroned on the mount of assembly, on the utmost heights of the sacred mountain" (Isa 14:13). Satan coveted the high place.
     After rounding up and corrupting a third of the angels, a coup d'etat was attempted, and defeated, after which Satan was driven "in disgrace from the mount of God, and I expelled you, O guardian cherub, from among the fiery stones" (Eze 28:16). Of course, God retained Zion's high place, but things have never been the same since. For, Satan was kicked out of heaven and thrown to the earth along with his helpers, "How you have fallen from heaven, O Lucifer...How you are cut down to the ground" (Isa 14:12 NKJV).
     Thus begins the saga of the high place.  
   
Why is there a conflict for the high place?
     As you can imagine, Satan's shoulder was chipped for the high place, and he wears that chip rabidly here on the earth. So what was his therapy? Filled with anger and wounded pride, he immediately went after Adam's high place: ruler of earth (Ps 8:6, 115:16). He succeeds in overthrowing Adam (Gen 3), and earth's high place changes seats to Satan (Lk 4:6, Jn 12:31, 14:30, 16:11). As humanity's population increased, Satan's demons were given their own high place, such as the demon-prince of Persia and the demon-prince of Greece (Dan 10:13,20). At some point, an elaborate demonic hierarchy was established to rule every sphere of earthly life (Eph 6:12), from large international organizations to small family clusters. In conjunction with the sinfulness of people, you can see why our world is so jacked up!
     Enter the people of God. Hallelujah! Praise God for the church! The church (Old Testament and New) is under divine promise that she would possess the high places. See the conflict? Two rear-ends can't sit in the same seat.   
     Abraham was promised to occupy the high place as father of many nations, and Sarah as mother, with kings coming from them (Gen 17:5,16). Isaac and Jacob inherited the same promise. Joseph subdued the high place everywhere he went. In Potiphar's house, he became manager of the entire household, second-in-charge only to Potiphar (Gen 39:1-6). In prison, he became superintendent of all the prisoners, second-in-charge only to the warden (v20-23). In Egypt, he became ruler of all Egypt, second-in-charge only to Pharaoh (41:39,40). 
     The greatest and most direct pronouncements of God pertaining to this are in Deuteronomy. Deuteronomy 28:13 (NKJV): And the LORD will make you the head and not the tail; you shall be above only, and not be beneath. Deuteronomy 33:29: Your enemies will cower before you, and you will trample down their high places.
     The New Covenant grafts the Gentile church into Israel's total inheritance. Paul says we, Gentile Christians, are "heirs together with Israel" (Eph 3:6) and that we are now nourished by the Jewish root (Ro 11:17,18). We are not only conquerors who subdue (8:37), but kings who sit in high places (Rev 1:6). In fact, we are seated in the highest high place with Christ Himself (Eph 2:6)!
     Isaiah foretells the last-days church will be incredibly powerful, possessing an overwhelming portion of earth's high places (Isa 2:2). Micah foresees the same thing (Mic 4:1). Obadiah put it like this (Oba 21): Deliverers will go up on Mount Zion to govern the mountains of Esau. And the kingdom will be the LORD's. Who will run with such promises?  
     This is the conflict for the high place. Satan covets it, the church is heir to it. A epic collision brews.      
 
How do I possess the high place?     
 
Own the promise.
     We will not pursue what we think we should not have. We are heir to the high places of the earth. Own the scriptures from the previous paragraph. The more you reflect on them, the more a holy aggression will heat up within you to subdue the high place God intends. Own your inheritance! 
 
Obey the command. 
     It's more than a promise, it's a command. Israel was ordered to destroy the high places of the enemy (Num 33:52, Deu 12:2, Ps 150). Hezekiah did so (2Ki 18:4), also Josiah (23:19,20). Proverbs 21:22: A wise man attacks the city of the mighty and pulls down the stronghold in which they trust. You and I are under orders to pull down the enemy's high place and replace it with a kingdom high place. Manasseh did such high place replacement (2Chr 33:17).   
 
Know your God. 
     Amos, Micah, and Nahum all saw God treading the high places of the earth (Am 4:13, Mic 1:3,4, Nah 1:5). If we know and intimately bond our souls with God daily, we also will tread the high places. His nature and being will possess us and possess through us.   
 
Pray and fast for it.
     Start praying and fasting deliberately for a high place, even if you're not sure of your field. Pray Isaiah 64:1-3. Isaiah 58 hails the results of fasting, one of which is the Lord causing us "to ride on the heights of the land" (v14).        
 
Speak God's Word.
     God Word in your mouth, His voice in your voice, subdues the high place. Psalm 29 says the voice of the Lord "is over the waters" and "powerful" and "breaks the cedars" and "strikes with flashes of lightning" and "strips the forests bare". Psalm 138:2 (NIV) says God has exalted above all things His name and Word. Ecclesiastes 8:4 says "a king's word is supreme". God told Joshua he would possess the land if only he never stopped speaking the Word.
     Declare God's Word privately and daily. Declare it within the environment you seek to possess, at the right time and in the right way. Weave it indirectly into conversations--it will still have the same overcoming effect. Micah 6:1: Stand up, plead your case before the mountains; let the hills hear what you have to say.      
 
Grow in godliness.
     Isaiah 33:15,16 says the godly and honest believer "will dwell on the heights...the mountain fortress". The height we seek to possess is beyond our present character. If we grow in godliness, though, when our character matches the high place requirement the mountain will be given us.
 
Watch for the hand up.   
      Mark 3:13 says Jesus went up on a mountainside and called to Himself twelve disciples. See the symbolism. Jesus is already on our mountain. He will call us up the mountain and set us in place through certain people. Watch for the hand up! Look for your Mark 3:13 ascension. 
 
Be wild! 
     Psalm 104:18 says "the high mountains belong to the wild goats" (also Job 39:1). To possess the high place, you must be a wild goat! You have to get over some reservations and insecurities. You have to abandon some comfort zones. You have to break out of the social box and be a bit adventurous. The high mountains belong to wild goats! 
 
Find your calling and get good at it.
     Daniel went high in Babylon because he was masterful at interpreting dreams. Esther won Xerxes' passion for a queen because she was a bombshell beauty. Cornelius became centurion because he was adept in military. This is practical Christianity folks. Find your calling and get good at it. Is it to be a lawyer? Mechanic? Model? Schoolteacher? Speaker? Actor? Clergy? Whatever it is, find it and be good! Learn, train, practice, study, observe, ask--daily.
     Check this scripture out, Proverbs 12:24: Diligent hands will rule, but laziness ends in slave labor. Did you hear that? Diligent hands possess the high place!

Thou Shalt Enjoy Life!

   If you were the most luminous mind in the world, and you were to write a brief discourse on life near the end of your days, and you knew trillions upon trillions of people throughout world history would read it, and you knew the Most High God would supernaturally perfect your every word, what would you say? The book of Ecclesiastes, written by King Solomon around 1000 BC, fits that unparalleled profile. 
   This Solomon said many times in his last-days journal, enjoy life! In fact, he said it around ten times (Ecc 2:24,25, 3:12,13, 5:18-20, 8:15, 9:7-9, 11:8-10). Simple counsel. How eye-opening.

"Vanity! Meaningless! Chasing the wind!"
     Solomon uses this colorful expression over thirty times in Ecclesiastes. There is a message in it: we also must have "vanity awakenings", seasons whereby we truly taste and own the meaninglessness of life without God as our Center
     Enjoying life is elusive. This is because it cannot happen without several disillusionments first. Solomon/God is urging this in Ecclesiastes. As Spirit-led Christians, God will engineer, or permit, certain circumstances so that we descend to this very necessary place of vanity awakening. We don't have to wait until our death-bed like Solomon, though. We can hasten these awakenings by understanding Ecclesiastes, recognizing their arrival, and accepting them fully.    
     Solomon gives us ten earthly realities that we must awaken to and be disillusioned by if we are to be free to enjoy life incredibly:
 
     1--Nature is more powerful than man.
(1:3-11) Nature is a perpetual and powerful cycle that cannot be stopped, undone, or controlled (v3-10), yet man lives a short time then is gone and forgotten (v11). Hurricanes, earthquakes, stormy seas, shark attacks, and other impositions of nature drive this reality deep within.
    
     2--Some problems can never be fixed.  
(1:15, 7:13) God cannot violate His Word, dishonor man's dignity of choice, or casually reverse every negative consequence. He abides by the very laws He created to govern earthly life. Some problems can never be fixed; eventually this will make us cry "Vanity! Meaningless!"   <